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„It is
done because it is done”
People with western
cultural values can hardly understand the given reasons for
the custom of female circumcision. To the majority of the
circumcised women the mutilation is a matter of course. From
their point of view, tradition, religion and culture as well
as medical and aesthetic beliefs require the ritual. Girls
must be cut, so that men marry them. A woman can ensure her
existence only through marriage. Therefore, she surrenders
to the social pressure.
The circumcision, in
particular the infibulation, is supposed to guarantee that
the woman remains a virgin before marriage and faithful in
marriage. This is the only way a man can be sure that she
definitely gives birth to his children („his sons”). The
sexuality of the woman is suppressed by the mutilation. The
woman becomes the property of her husband. Her purpose is to
satisfy his desires and to bear his children.
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